So,I wanted to change the pace of things just a lil bit’…
A Lil’ sexy: Throw on your red dress, slip on your high heels,
and some of that sweet perfume.(In the words of Johnny Gill)..
This will change up the atmosphere and add a lil' sexiness
to your love making…
Showim’ whatcha’ working with: If you have a mirror on
the wall,closet or better yet video camera...USE IT…
If you have a mirror position yourself to be seen,
men are very visual and would love to see you enjoying every
minute. As for the video camera, No need to record,
plug it into your TV for visuals only. Now if you want a
Paris or Kim Flick press record…and just lay back & watch
the magic later!
Say what u really wanna say: Talk to him, let him know what
you want,be loud about it… Believe me, he will respond with
no complaints. Don’t be afraid to ask him what he wants, you
maybe surprised and have the best time of your sex life. But,
make sure you're open to the answer and remember you’re both
most vulnerable during this sensually time!
Toys R Us: Get a couple props that make you feel good and
remember,if it feels good to you then he’ll get the point
and try to make it feel even better. You may want to have
the conservation in advance, very casually one day before
actually making a purchase. If he’s comfortable and shows
an interest… Ladies that means let’s go shopping for some
bedroom toys... Make sure to listen carefully
to what turns him on.. as well as you!
It pay’s to be the Boss: You can use your toys while being the
boss lady.
Tell him to lie down while you blind fold or hand cuff him,
or whatever you choose. Tease him with licks, nibbles, caresses,
but whatever you do don’t let him take control until you’re nice
and ready.Ladies you know exactly what I mean… Scratch
his chest while on-top, or yank his head toward you to
give him a passionate,this-is-what-I-do kind of kiss.
He’ll be ready to take charge when your ready to demote
yourself from Boss Lady… to lil' miss submissive;)
Editor: Nat B
